If you are not sure about giving a head to someone or feel that you are not good enough, then this guide on how to suck on a dick good is going to be your ultimate guide on how you give someone the most unforgettable head they have ever got!
There are a few guys that like it slow and gentle but some like it rough, your intention is to find their sweet spot and hit it as many times as you can so that they never forget a BJ that they got from you.
Giving head can be one of the most sexually arousing aspects for a man and a woman as well. It is fun for both parties and hence it gets better when done right.
There are so many variations that you could do but in this post, I would be discussing a few more tips on how you can just get better at giving someone a blowjob.
The climax is pretty debatable as not everyone likes to be all wet by the end of it.
Make sure you have that decided between you and your partner on where you want the cum to go else it would just get annoying if you get cum on parts where you didn’t intend to get wet.
Getting back to the whole part where I share you with some really good tips on how to suck a penis, let’s get into the details.
1. Playing with the tip
The Tip may not be something that seems like you should go for in the beginning but that’s actually where I would start.
Let’s face it the sensation that men feel on the tip is AMAZING and depending on the person you should make sure that you give enough time to that part of the penis.
Usually starting slowly with the tip is something that calms down most of the men and you can go ahead with drawing some pattern on the tip and then maybe sucking the tip and alternating between these two actions.
So when you would be drawing some pattern on the tip, the tip would be in contact with some cold air and your tongue because it is not completely inside your mouth.
However, when you suddenly suck the tip for a moment, the tip goes all warm and this alternating temperature arouses men instantly.
I have tried this a couple of times and it works like a charm. Make sure to be gentle and do look at your partner’s eyes and observe his body language for some feedback.
Also, this would work if your partner is already excited so maybe give them a hand job to get them there, and then you can easily play around this way for a bit.
Now once you have done some magic with the tip, it’s time to take it a bit deeper.
2. Taking the length of the Penis
Once you are done teasing the tip and playing around a bit, your partner would now be waiting for your mouth to be wrapped all around the cock.
So, you are going to take it in slowly and go till the mid-length and then continue playing with the tip with your tongue and sucking alternating between both these actions.
Once you are done with that for a while you can to move your mouth up and down on the length of the cock and make sure that you have your mouth wide open as you do not want the dick to hit on your teeth since that can hurt someone with a sensitive penis.
Make sure your lips are the only part of your mouth in contact with the cock and does not touch a lot of the inside of your mouth as it enters.
So, for this, you need to have your mouth wide open. Whilst doing this motion, you can even suck on the dick with your lips so every time the cock enters your mouth, it feels like it is getting sucked in.
Trust me, men would love this kind of thing and you are going to give your man some powerful head once you have aced this technique. It is something most commonly used and you can slowly move to the end of the cock.
Now, going towards the end of the cock can be tricky for some since it is going to fill up your mouth and can get overwhelming. This is where I would say keep an open mind and explore.
It does take some time to get used to it but if you are able to do it in the first go then you are pretty good at this already!
You need to see the response and body language of your partner in order to understand if he likes it or not. You can adjust the pressure and the speed at which you give the blow.
You can even lick the cock and play around a bit so that your partner gets excited and just can’t stop looking at you while you enjoy his cock in your mouth.
There are a couple of things that you could do here depending on what your man likes but it is best to try some and look at their face and understand what makes them go crazy the most and repeat that again and again.
Make sure you are alternating between two things as you don’t want to just be doing one thing on their cock as that would get them bored after a while.
3. Taking the full length
Many people just stop at the precious point but if you want to go ahead and explore a bit then you can do this. Try taking the entire length in your mouth and trust me, your man would go crazy.
This is probably one of the best things you are going to do to him so make sure you do it right. There are some cocks that are average length and hence it is easy to put them completely inside the mouth without any issues.
However, if the person is BIG down there, then you are going to choke when you take the full length.
Now, it takes time getting used to but many people are turned ON when they are fucked in the mouth so they choke on every thrust and relax when the dick is out.
However, if you are not into it then you can always NOT do it and let your partner know that you are not into it. There are times when guys just push themselves into your mouth and that’s your cue if you want to say NO or just want to take your own time into getting used to it.
I personally do not do it because I’m just not that into it, however, you can always try with your partner and decide if you really like it and if you are going to do it in the future.
4. Releasing the Cum
Now, this is completely dependent on what you decide. There are many people who go on casual dates and then when it comes to sex they think they can do anything and get away with it.
So, they just cum in your mouth even when you did not want it and that is a complete buzz kill. If you do not want it or if you want it, you should let your partner know before you start giving him the most amazing head.
Blowjobs are amazing even without you having to take the cum in your mouth so stay confident and state what you want clearly to the person.
Now, you can ask the person to cum on your breasts, mouth, or face. You can even stop just before the person cums and continue your foreplay and then move on to sex.
You can take the whole session in any direction you like, make sure you think, and do not get carried away in the heat of the moment.
Although it is nice when that happens but have an idea of what you want to do so that you do not get into a heated argument, right between having sex.
5. Alternating between two things
Alternating between two different patterns is something that I’m fond of and if you want to get your partner moaning while you give him that blow then make sure you keep switching things up.
Initially start with using your tongue and just moving up and down on the length of the cock and once you are done with that, you need to suck on the entire length. Alternating between these two things can really make your partner
You can try new patterns depending on what your partner likes and switch things up so that he is into it. If you want them to climax in your mouth then make sure that you increase the speed towards the end of your session.
You can have your own thing and you can change it anytime you like. This would make your Blowjob different from anything that he has experienced yet.
Are Blowjobs Important?
It depends on what you like if you are someone who does not like it then you do not need to do it. If you are someone who believes in doing everything but giving a blowjob then that is fine too.
Do not be ashamed of what you like and what you don’t. Initially, I did not like blowjobs a lot but with time, I got used to the idea and I practically love it right now.
So, it can be a phase, and sometimes, you may or may not like something but it does not mean that you HAVE to do it just because everyone else is doing it.
SO, take your time and explore and enjoy it!
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