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A Guide on Erotic Spanking- How to Spank?

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If you think of it, spanking could be one if not the most used form of kink in the sex world so it may seem simple and easy to do but it always better to know the dos and donts of spanking.

The butt is one of the most overlooked aphrodisiac body parts that can be accessed with ease. With that being said, spanking is one of the best ways to start if you are trying to figure out your kink.

There are different parts of the body that can be spanked and each part comes with different techniques and intensities.

Spanking has been considered as a weird addition to sex at first but it got slowly accepted and now, most people are doing it more often to spice up things in the bedroom.

According to surveys, over 60% of people have experienced spanking during sex. Looking at spanking, that the spanker seems to be the one that is satisfied.

The thing is that the spankee is also satisfied as spanking releases endorphins which causes a satisfying feeling for the one who is being spanked.

It is a kinky activity that requires little to no use of other objects or sex toys. That does not mean that you cannot use one but the spanking alone can satisfy both people.

 

How to Introduce Spanking to a Partner?

The first and best step in spanking is making both parties know what’s about to happen. It is very important to let your partner know that you like spanking or being spanked.

Of course, surprising someone in the middle of sex could either be very fun or upsetting and you should not risk the latter.

If you also want to go into a more hardcore BDSM, then you should first take it slow, spanking is the great start before bringing out whips and other toys.

Discuss it with your partner before getting into it. In fact, you can get to the spanking during foreplay and if neither of you liked it then you can simply continue with sex without including spanking.

The important thing is that you and your partner should both know what you like and what you do not. Communication is key and the saying applies to this activity as well.

If you think that having a conversation about spanking before sex is awkward, then let me break it to you that there is no other way around it.

You need to have a conversation before you do it else wait for you to get comfortable with the person you are involved with so that you can ask her boundaries during sex.

As for every kind of sexual activity, consent is mandatory and no one should do anything sexually without both parties agreeing on it.

If you are the one who likes spanking, then you should try saying, “I am into spanking and I was wondering if that is okay with you?” or anything along that line.

On the other hand, if you like being spanked, then you can ask your partner, “I have been thinking and I want you to spank me if you are comfortable with that. Is that okay?”

Be always clear about what you want. It is great foreplay to just talk about what each other wants so do not think about foreplay as an all-physical activity.

By discussing before performing, you can agree to have “a safe word” that you can both say if you feel like what the other is doing is a little uncomfortable.

 

The Guide to Spanking

Since we have already discussed the very first and very important rule of spanking, it is time to get deeper into action and see what else you should do to perfect the art of erotic spanking.

Here are some points to consider before and when spanking:

 

1. Do Not Go Overboard

After you have talked about how you would like to perform the spanking, you should have set the rules on what to do and what not to do.

Make sure that you keep those in mind and do not go over the line. You are trying to make the activity fun and not just on your own terms.

Spanking is a painful activity if not done right so you should make yourself and your partner comfortable. Telling your partner that you want to try but you do not want pain is an example.

Of course, most people who love BDSM give themselves pleasure with pain but they also set rules and limits. Punishment and pleasure can be combined but with boundaries.

 

2. BID

This is a mnemonic developed by sex and relationships coach Effy Blue which stands for Boundaries, Intentions, and Desires. This applies to most people who are new to BDSM.

Boundaries are the things that you would not put yourself into. Meaning that you want to experience the activity but there are certain lines that no one should cross.

Intentions are what the partners want to do or experience in order to spice up the relationship.

The main purpose of this is to discover what you like in the activity and what you want to remove from it. Basically wanting to add something new.

Desire is the part where you get to before experiencing anything. These are the things that you want or want to do during the activity.

 

3. The Setting Is Important

spanking can either be satisfying or just plain painful and not in the fun way that you wanted it to be. The latter can be probable especially if you did not set the mood right.

You should always make sure that your partner is properly aroused before getting into the part that involves other forms of pain and pleasure.

Maybe start with kissing and cuddling instead of going straight into the spanking part. You can spank your partner during the foreplay but you should make the intensity gradual.

You can put on some music to get you going. You can also keep the music on so you can spank your partner with the rhythm of the music.

You would want the true spanking during the best part of the sex so keep it lowkey during the start. Use spanking only to arouse before the penetration.

Roleplay is also one of the things that you can do to make you and your partner aroused. The best roleplay that can be used in spanking is a dominant-to-submissive roleplay.

That includes teacher to student, master to slave, or police to a pedestrian. This is only a variation and it may not be something that arouses you.

If you are both into dirty talking then you can try that. This is basically a step-by-step guide so you should talk about everything from the start and enjoy the experience all throughout.

 

4. Find the Right Position

The most common position done when you want spanking mixed with your sex is the over-the-knee position where the one being spanked is on the lap of the spanker.

It is a very intimate position that makes spanking easy for both parties. There are a lot of other positions that you can do with your partner to enjoy spanking.

This is one way to get you going as well. When you are in the right position, you get to experience the best of the spanking.

 

5. Warm-Up and Anticipation

At the beginning of spanking, it is good to start with a soft smack and not directly to a forceful one.

The stinging sensation of the slap will be good enough to get you started. If your partner wants it to go harder then they will say it or you can ask whether they like it to go harder or not.

As you build-up to the intensity and the speed of the spanking, make sure that you give your partner the right anticipation between every spank.

You should give something to your partner to let them know that the spanking is about to come and doing such will let you increase the intensity and speed.

 

6. Experiment

Experimenting seems like something in the line of a surprise but you just need to make sure that you and your partner agreed to it.

This will give you more opportunities to find what you both like when having sex and spanking. The variations could be on the intensity.

You can hit the spankee with different forces to see which one is the best spank for both of you.

The way your hand and fingers are positioned can also be changed when you want to get into spanking. The wider or closer your fingers are can make a huge difference in pain and pleasure.

Cupping your hands is also one way to vary your slap. This makes a lot more sound and with a different pain that comes with it.

See, a flat-palmed slap gives a more tingling sensation while a cupped palm only has spots for the pain that you are going to feel and not the whole area of the hand.

You see, getting into the mood is just the part where it is like a warmup and the main game is the variation that you try in order to find the best way of slapping that you and your partner like.

 

7. Do Not Stick To Slapping

Spanking is basically slapping an area of the spankee to turn them on. But Erotic Spanking involves more than the stinging spank that you give or receive.

This pointer is for the spanker where they should be caring and punishing at the same time. It means that you should do something in between spanks.

Do not slap all the way. Try massaging the area before and after you slap or scratch them with the right strength to further arouse the spankee.

Other activities that go well with spanking are tickling, rubbing, and thrusting your finger into some areas that the receiver wants you to put it into.

The fact that all of these combined with spanking can arouse the one being spanked is a very important pointer to avoid boredom with a single spanking action.

 

8. Get Creative With Tools

Experimenting when spanking really is not only about the hand and the area where someone is slapping. You can use daily objects in the house to perform with.

For example, you can get some rubber bands and flick it on the area where you want to spank your partner for a less intense start.

Get on with a swatter or a flat object to use in spanking and more. Basically, the foreplay should not be only about the sex in general but also the spanking.

The music that you have been using from the start of the activity can be changed so you get to adjust your tempo. You can still use the beat of the music to get you going and control the intensity of each slap.

 

9. Start With The Butt

The butt is the most common area for spanking during sex. It is an accessible area for spanking all while performing different sex positions.

The butt stores a significant amount of fats so spanking it will absorb the force and prevent hitting bones that might be painful.

It is also close to the genitals making it more arousing when it is stimulated. Slapping the butt will allow more blood flow hence, triggering more erotic arousal.

The butt is also a hidden part. When you accidentally bruised the part that you spanked, then at least the butt can be easily hidden by skirts and/or pants.

 

10. After Care and “After” After Care

After an intense erotic spanking activity, the spankee might go to a state of subspace. This means that the one who received all the spanking is brought into a state of change.

All the hormones that were stimulated and released during the activity may cause this sudden change and they need some comfort to get them back to their normal state.

The subspace includes symptoms such as unstoppable shaking, or in extreme cases, panic attacks. So you should be there and get ready to give all the support that you can give.

A simple cuddle will do but there is nothing wrong if you go the extra mile. In fact, the spanker also needs it as a form of relaxation and assurance.

The ‘after’ aftercare includes external caring such as treating a bruise on the area where someone has been spanked.

Having bruises can take a toll on some ways. So you need to treat that immediately.

If there are bruises, you should get some ice and apply it right away in the area. Do that for 20 to 30 minutes immediately after the spanking activity.

Continue to do so twice a day for at least 3 days or until it is necessary. The swelling and bruises should go down by the third day.

You can also use gels instead of the ice but the immediate aide for the swelling is the ice therapy. Using gel should be done after the swelling has died down.

 

How to Spank During Foreplay?

The main feature of spanking during foreplay is the intensity. You should take it slow and take it lightly since it is just the warmup.

As the spanker, you should give just the right amount of spanking and the force that comes with it should be not too forceful and just enough to let the blood flow into the area.

The purpose of spanking during foreplay is to arouse the partner and not to please or hurt her before the main action. Once you do this, you can gradually intensify the spanking.

By starting in the spanking session, you should also take note of the area that you spank for turning your partner on. The butt is always the best part to start.

 

How To Spank During Sex?

This is the part where you can apply the more intense and speedy spanking that you want. The spanks during sex are a lot better and more painful than that during the foreplay.

You can bring out the experimenting part of spanking during sex where you should try and determine which spank is the best for you and the spankee.

This is also just another step to a more intense kind of spanking where you can get to use tools and sex toys to help you satisfy your partner.

Make sure that you put varieties in your slap and the area that you are slapping. Hitting the same spot may hurt and cause more discomfort rather than pleasure.

If you want the experience to be as erotic as it can be, then you should spank different areas to stimulate other areas.

 

Areas Of The Body That You Can Spank

As said above, there are different areas where you can spank your partner safely may it be the butt, breast, or the pussy. But there are differences on how to spank on each area.

 

1. How To Spank On Ass

Spanking the butt is the best sensational spanking area. It is a great area for beginners of both spanker and spankee.

The butt can absorb a lot of force compared to the other areas and so you can practice how you improve the intensity and control of the spanking.

Spanking the butt should also include a specific action of the slapping. The best motion is the upward one where the slap should just graze the butt and the motion goes up.

There are actions where slapping the butt downwards may satisfy them but in general, avoiding your hand to stick on the butt and following the slap can go better.

 

2. How to Spank On Breasts

The secret to spanking the breasts is to keep it light. The breast is a more sensitive area than the butt so it needs more care than pain.

Slapping the breasts is also like slapping the butt where you go upwards. The force you put in should be just enough to make the boobs jiggle and you should prevent making bruises.

The stress that the breasts accept is low so you should try and avoid that. Hitting the breast on the side should also be controlled.

The main thing to remember when slapping the breast is to keep the spanks softer than that of what you put on the butt.

 

3. Spanking On Pussy

Spanking the pussy is usually done during foreplay and the spankee should enjoy it. Make sure that when you are spanking the pussy, do not go full force.

It is like tapping the pussy with a flat palm with fingers together. Spanking the pussy requires speed and intensity, not force.

The pussy is a sensitive area so you should spank it lightly. Repeatedly spanking the pussy will be enough to stimulate it even without too much force.

Make sure that you leave time for you to satisfy the pussy in other ways. Spanking it would just be the warmup and finishing in sexual penetration should be the best way to do it.

You can also spank the pussy during sex. The reversed cowgirl is the best position to do this as your hand reaches the pussy while she is riding you.

Conclusion

Spanking is a very fun addition to your sex life and everyone should definitely try doing it. It is also a great way to start with any kinks that you have.

It is basically a beginner’s experience before using more intense BDSM’s and sex toys that come along with it.

Get your partner to talk about the spanking before you try and attempt it out of nowhere so there would not be any awkward moment aside from the part where you talk about it.

Though it is a rather simple activity, there are ways to do it correctly and you should keep them in mind so you can get all the fun and pleasure and ignore the pain.

Having a great partner that you can talk to about this topic should be a huge plus and then you can start by following the guide above and start your journey to the kinky sex experience.

Make sure that you get the best spanking experience by keeping your partner involved and both of you are having fun to create the most erotic and pain plus pleasure combination of your sex lives.

Do share your spanking experiences with us and let us know if we missed out on anything in the comments below!

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How to use a Penis Pump Safely

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Penis Pumps are gaining popularity and fame is well deserved. There are a lot of good things that can happen to you if you use penis pumps the right way but at the same time if you do not know how to use a penis pump safely then a lot of things can go wrong.

Penis pumps are non-drug treatments that are commonly used by men with erectile dysfunctions. They are also used for other purposes.

Men use it for the short term effect that it gives your penis a larger erection. It is also used for its long term effects like having a larger penis.

People who have erectile dysfunctions use a penis pump to maintain a healthy and longer erection that can last for sexual interaction or for masturbation.

Erectile dysfunction (ED) is not as rare as most people think and the risk of having one increases with age. According to studies, 5% of men in their 40’s experience ED and 15% for men over 70 years.

That is why there are more and more ways that are developed on how to treat the said defect. Penis pumps are one way to deal with it without having to take any drugs.

There are side effects on taking drugs for this problem and penis pumps, although non-drug, also have effects that can be acquired if used in the wrong way.

 

What is a Penis Pump?

A Penis Pump is also called Vacuum Pump or Vacuum Erection Pump. It is a device that uses a vacuum to help a penis get erect and the device usually consists of:

1. A tube that fits on your penis

2. A constriction ring for the bottom of your penis.

3. A battery-powered or a manual pump sucking the air out of the tube to trigger erections.

 

How does a Penis Pump Work?

Basically, you fill the tube with water or just the air depending on your penis pump. The vacuum sucks the air or water out and your penis fills the negative space created.

This means that the penis will enlarge and the veins will allow blood to flow inside the penis making it erect. If you remove the penis pump, your penis will slowly return to its normal size.

Using a constriction ring, the ring will slow the blood flow out of the penis making it erect for a longer time making it possible for men with erectile dysfunction to perform sexual intercourse.

Penis pumps are used widely because they are affordable and they have fewer risks than treatments that require you to take in drugs.

With that being said, it does not mean that penis pumps do not have side effects. They can cause permanent tissue damage, swelling, and discoloration if not used properly.

So here is how you can use Penis Pumps:

1. It is recommended that you shave your pubic hair first. It is not required but the suction will work better without hair getting in the way.

2. Use some lubes to avoid irritation from the tube before inserting your penis into it.

3. Start pumping the air out of the tube. Depending on your device, you can use the power or manually operate it to get the blood flowing into your penis.

4. Once the penis is erect, you can put a constriction ring at the bottom of the penis to keep as much blood in your penis.

5. Remove the tube and start masturbating or have sexual intercourse.

Take note that putting a penis ring or constriction ring around your penis will slow the blood flow from coming out of the penis but do not leave it for more than 30 minutes to prevent damages.

 

Using a Penis Pump Safely

When you use a Penis Pump, selecting one is an important piece in order for you to get the most benefits out of it and use it safely.

Here are some pointers on what you should look for when getting your penis pump:

1. Pressure Gauge

  • Overpumping is when there is too much pressure inside the tube and your penis gets pulled too much inside that might result in permanent damages.
  • That is pretty common for new users of penis pumps. Having a pressure gauge on your penis pump allows you to see how much pressure is inside the tube.

2. A Quick Release Valve

  • This feature is also beneficial not only for old users but especially for new ones. 
  • A quick-release valve allows air to enter the tube rapidly to almost instantly release your penis from the tube.
  • This is effective and great for when you feel like something is hurting and you need to get your penis out of the tube instantly.

3. Lubricant

  • Using a lubricant has a couple of benefits. You get to prevent irritations from the tube when it gets too tight.
  • You also have additional suction on the surface as your penis allows the lube to seal the opening of the tube.
  • Try not to use too much however so it does not get too slippery. Start with a small amount and then add more if you feel like it.

4. Penis Pump Sleeve or Comfort Pad

  • The tube of a penis pump is usually made out of plastic that is hard and sturdy. 
  • You should use comfort pads to keep the area where the penis touches the tube a little bit more comfortable.
  • The firm and hard texture of the plastic may result in your penis being irritated or even worse, bruised.
  • Aside from the comfort that you will get from a penis sleeve, it will also add on the seal of the pump so it can develop better suction.
  • It will also keep your scrotum out of the tube. Sometimes the tube is too large for the penis and it ends up sucking the scrotum as well so the penis sleeve helps.

5. Shave

  • This will add to having more suction in the tube. The hair sometimes gets sucked into the tube so shaving will help seal the tube to your skin.
  • Shaving is not required but if you have followed the instructions and the suction is still not working, try shaving or trimming some of your pubic hairs.

6. Get the right size

  • Getting the right size of the tube that fits your penis perfectly is very important to prevent injuries.
  • A tube that is too small will not produce enough suction power to get your penis erect to a larger size.
  • A tube that is too large will have too much suction power that may cause a high risk of over pumping.
  • While penis pumps with too large of an opening will only result in an unsealed tube which can generate low to no suction at all.

7. Do not over pump

  • For beginners, you need to take things slow as your penis will experience sensations that are new to you and your penis.
  • The advised frequency of using the pump is 2 to 3 uses per week. Once you get comfortable, then you can increase the frequency.
  • Make sure that your pumping sessions only last for 10 to 15 minutes to prevent overpumping.
  • You can release your penis from the tube every 15 minutes and then reuse after taking a break. Do not go all the way without a break.

8. Get a clear pump

  • One of the easiest ways to know that you are over pumping is seeing the action in real-time.
  • Having a transparent tube will allow you to see your penis right through it and tell yourself if you are doing too much.
  • One way to spot overpumping is the discoloration of your penis. Or if there are spots with different colors.
  • Make sure to release the pump and get your penis out of the tube to prevent further damages.

 

Benefits of Using a Penis Pump the Proper Way

Penis Pumps are great in making erections for men. The duration may vary depending on the individual but usually, it will make your penis erect for up to 30 minutes.

There are no side effects related to medicated treatments for erectile dysfunctions. It does not require surgery or any intake that can cause other complications.

Penis pumps are also great in the long run and can be cheaper. Medications can last longer and may require you to pay for a long time.

Penis pumps are more expensive at first but in the long run, they are cheaper since they can be used repeatedly and without the need for additional payment for reusing.

Penis pumps also give men with erectile dysfunction a higher chance of getting natural erections with fewer health risks.

 

Side effects and Risks brought by using Penis Pumps

There are only limited side effects when you use a penis pump correctly and safely. It really depends on how your body reacts to it, you can use it multiple times a day or only a few in a week.

Here are some of the Side Effects that you might get when Penis Pumps are used the wrong way:

1. Pain

  • When you use a penis pump, there should only be a few feelings and pain should not be one of them.

2. Bruising

  • Too much pressure will result in spots where blood is too constricted. That will result in bruises or irritations that should not be existent if a penis pump is properly used.

3. Burst Blood Vessels.

  • Burst blood vessels are often results of over pumping. When you use the penis pump too often, it may result in red spots where the blood bursts out of the veins.
  • This usually means that there is internal bleeding happening just under the skin of your penis which might result in more complications.

4. Discoloration and Numbness

  • This is usually caused by the constriction ring being too tight. The blood is stuck inside the penis and it is not circulating properly.
  • Using a larger ring will give your penis a larger way for the blood to circulate properly while still slowing down the process.

5. Painful Ejaculation

  • When there is trapped semen inside your penis, the ejaculation will usually be painful.
  • You can avoid this by making a cutout on the constriction ring giving your semen a pathway to move freely on.
  • You can also opt to not use constriction rings at all.

6. Psychological effects

  • Some people may find it embarrassing when using a penis pump.
  • Partners also find it awkward to use a penis pump before having sex but this one really depends on both of you.

 

Conclusion

Penis Pumps, when used, properly are one if not the best ways of getting your penis erect with no medications needed.

You should always take precautions in using a penis pump to prevent side effects and permanent damages from happening.

Talking to your doctor will be one of the recommendations before using a penis pump as there are people who are not allowed to use it.

Those people are the ones using some medications such as pills for blood thinning or people with diseases that cause blood to clot or excessive bleeding.

As you may have already known, the blood is the main player in the penis that makes it erect. The Penis Pump only helps people who have a hard time getting their penis to erect.

There are a lot of claims that penis pumps make your penis larger. This may be true temporarily but in the long run, it still depends on you and your genes.

It is not recommended to use a penis pump if your sole purpose of using is to enlarge your penis permanently.

Following simple instructions for safe use is still the best way to get your penis erected with the use of a Penis Pump so make sure to read and follow.

Big Shot Squirting Dildo Review

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Dildos have been basically the base of sex toys and they seem to be the pattern that other sex toys take a blueprint from. 

From vibrators to squirting dildos and then to both like the Big Shot Squirting Dildo. For a relatively small toy, the Big Shot Squirting Dildo bags amazing features to please you.

There have been a ton of toys and innovations but squirting dildos are still rare or most of them are made out of materials that are not that safe when used regularly.

Big Shot uses high-grade materials that are safe and it is cheaper than most of the toys with the same function as well.

Pleasing yourself with a realistic penis all with the veins and the head shaped perfectly like a real penis and the materials used are perfectly safe.

With the easy-access controls, you can control the dildo and select the type of vibration that you love or make the sex toy squirt whenever you want.

So if you are looking for some reasons to buy this dildo, read on with this review to see its best features and some disadvantages compared to others and I hope it helps you decide.

 

Big Shot Squirting Dildo Specs and Design

Well for the design, it is basically a replica of a penis measuring 8 inches from the tip to the end of the balls and has 6 inches of insertable length with 1.3 inches of girth.

It has veins and the shaft on the head of the penis is perfectly shaped to make the dildo give off a life-like feeling when it is used.

It is a firm dildo and is not really life-like but the size is what makes it great since it balances the firmness of the sex toy with the size.

It is made from a smooth ABS plastic and the luxurious feel makes the dildo even better and more importantly, it is safe.

The base of the sex toy has its cap for filling up the liquid and a very powerful suction cup which helps in keeping the dildo in place for a hands-free experience.

You can select from 10 variations of the vibrations and it can be accessed with just a click of a button.

The same with the squirting action, they are controlled with a button.

It weighs at around 10 ounces and can go heavier when you fill it up with the liquid of your choice.

 The vibrators and the motors for the squirting are waterproof so you can use it while you are in the shower or in the tub.

The materials used in making the Big Shot Squirting Dildoes are Phthalate and latex-free so you do not have to worry about exposure to harmful materials if you use it constantly.

The sound of the vibration is not very loud, maybe the rubber surrounding helps in keeping the sound low but it does not make a lot even when it is used at its highest intensity.

It is fully rechargeable and the box comes in with the cord that connects the dildo to a power source. You can find the charging port at the bottom of the body of the dildo.

 

How does it work?

The Big Shot Squirting Dildo is controlled via two buttons. One for the vibrations and the other for the squirting mechanism.

Once it arrives, you need to charge it until it reaches its full charge. No need to turn it on, all you need to do is press the vibration button and shuffle through the variations by repeating pressing it.

The buttons are pretty hard to find if you do not know where they are since they are basically only ridges on the penis.

But they are strategically positioned where you can still control them while using the dildo. 

The button closer to the scrotum part is the one that controls the ejaculation while the other one positioned higher is the one that controls the vibrations.

So once you have charged the dildo, you need to fill the reservoir with a liquid of your choice. You can put plain water, water-based lube, or a hybrid lubricant to be ejaculated.

The ejaculation feature will not automatically deploy so you can use the dildo for as long as you like by manually moving it around until you want it to come.

The vibration feature also lasts long enough for you to come since the motor only works for simple functions. Having a fully charged battery will last for hours.

The squirting mode can be activated with the press of a button and the secretion will last for three to five seconds before the reservoir goes empty.

Cleaning it is simple. You can use warm water and soap since the dildo is waterproof and make sure to wipe it off with a cloth.

Since the dildo is made out of ABS, it is required to use only water-based lubes to keep the quality of the material and for longevity.

 

How does it feel when using it?

The vibrators of the Big Shot are very powerful and rumbly. Meaning if you put it inside, you can really feel it vibrate and it stimulates the places that I like to be touched.

The shape and size were perfect as well. They reached the G-spot and the ridges made by the veins and curves were very great since they give a very realistic feel.

You can select from 3-speed variations and 7 different patterns of vibration to see which one pleases you best. 

The squirting action is one of the best in the market and what makes it even better is that it does it automatically with a press of a button.

Most dildos with this feature will require you to either push a syringe plunger down or squeeze a silicone bulb attached to the cum tube to make the dildo cum.

Those features are great for controlling the amount of liquid that comes out of the dildo but then you always need to worry about making it squirt accidentally.

For example, if you accidentally squeeze the silicone bulb then your squirting feature will be done even if you are still starting to enjoy it.

The fact that the button in the Big Shot is easy to access then you can enjoy all the other features until you reach the climax and that is when you press the button for ejaculation.

The force of the squirting motion is not that strong but not too weak that you do not feel it. It is just the right amount of force out into the ejaculation enough for you to feel.

The reservoir is also easier to clean compared to toys that use a syringe plunger or a cum tube. The Big Shot has a relatively large hole in the reservoir so you can wash it with water and rinse it while keeping it open for air to dry it out.

Having the suction cup also helps a whole lot. The suction is very great in wet tile surfaces but it does not work that well on dry surfaces or boards.

Trying to use the dildo with a strap-on was also great. The space for the reservoir and the ball sacks was great leverage for the harness to hold on to.

The thing is, there are no designed harnesses for the Big Shot Squirting Dildo so you need to be careful in thrusting or it will go out of place or fall off if you go too hard.

 

What makes the Big Shot Squirting Dildo unique?

The main feature that differentiates the Big Shot Squirting Dildo is the fact that the ejaculating motion can be controlled very easily and is not prone to accidental ejaculation.

With a push of a button, the liquid you put inside the reservoir will come out easily and it is stored safely until you choose to get it out of there.

For a sex toy its size, it also has a strong vibrator. The level 1 speed was rumbly enough that it is great for stimulating certain areas and level two really gets you going.

The third level is strong enough and going there might not be necessary but if you love strong vibrations, then you can get this toy and it will do that for you.

It is made out of safe materials and you will rarely find an ejaculating sex toy in the market made with the same materials as the Big Shot.

 

What I liked about the Big Shot Squirting Dildo

1. The controlled ejaculation feature that is easily activated with a simple push of a button is a huge plus.

2. The shape and size are perfectly combined with the overall firmness of the toy. Add the realistic veins and curves and it really does its job in creating a life-like feel.

3. The ease of cleaning the dildo is great since most sex toys are not waterproof. With the Big Shot Dildo, you can wash it with water and you do not have to worry about it being destroyed.

4. The reservoir or the liquid that you want to put inside the dildo is easily accessed with a twist-and-lock cap plus it can be cleaned easily as well.

5. The Big Shot Dildo is an amazing toy with features that you will find on more expensive products but this toy offers it at a lower price.

6. Since it does not use up too much energy with only two motors to work with, the battery lasts long for hours so you can enjoy it without interruptions.

 

What can be improved?

1. The length can be made longer for more sensation as long as the firmness is adjusted and make it a little bit softer if it gets longer.

2. It only stimulates the inside of the vulva so maybe they can add something to satisfy the clitoris and other parts.

 

Conclusion

The Big Shot Squirting Dildo is ana amazing sex toy that features the best ejaculating sex toy system out there. 

The fact that it releases the liquid with a press of a button is impressive and rare. Most toys with the squirting feature are still stuck on the cum tube system.

The vibrations are pretty strong. For a toy that small, the motors inside it are powerful enough to make a rumbly vibration and give the best sensation that you can get.

Since it is a body-safe toy, you can use the Big Shot Dildo as often as you want. It is easy to clean as well so using it on a regular basis would not be a problem at all.

It is sold at a very low price and its features are found only on expensive products so this is a great investment and it will surely live up to the hype.

Make sure to check out the Big Shot Squirting Dildo when buying your dildo and get features that will surely get you to that satisfaction and climax that you want!

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Pipedream’s Fantasy for Her Review

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The Fantasy for Her is one of Pipedream’s lines of sex toys and is one that is not commonly sold in the market today but deserves more recognition for its amazing features.

For years, sex toys have been seen as something embarrassing but nonetheless, companies have continued production as they should.

People are slowly accepting that there is nothing wrong with using sex toys to pleasure oneself and with innovations like the Fantasy for Her, sex toys are going to be great in the near future.

Fantasy for Her is a sex toy with many unique functions all gathered in a single device to pleasure people who use it – may it be men or women.

Despite the name of the product, Fantasy for Her can actually be used by men. It is a sex toy that combines, suction, vibration, and a licker to please yourself.

The whole device has a function other than being a handle. It is a multiple sex toy that was cramped into a single device.

So let us talk about the features and other things that the Fantasy for Her offers.

 

Out of the box

The packaging for the Fantasy for Her is a little boring with just a common style. It does have the picture of the sex toy which immediately gives you the proportions.

The box contains a soft plastic that encloses the contents of the box. From there you will see the main body of the sex toy, 2 suction cups with different sizes, and a cord for charging.

The suction cups also differ in shape with one being a circle and the other being oval. There is also a sleeve for the tongue which is added with texture.

 

The Design

The body of the sex toy is coated with soft silicone which is perfect for gripping the device and smooth enough for the sensitive parts of your body.

You will see four buttons on the handle and the tongue at the tip of the sex toy’s body.

You can use it that way or put the sleeve on for more texture if you like.

The suction cups are both cone-shaped with a silicone cover to prevent air from escaping.

It attaches to the body of the device with a simple twist and lock motion.

It measures a total length of 11 inches and has a girth of 2.5 inches on the bottom part of the device while the part with the buttons has 4.5 inches in diameter.

The motor is inside which makes the tongue motion work along with the vibration on the handle.

Having the vibration on the handle means that you need to hold the toy when you are using it so you can feel the full experience of the vibration.

The two suction cups are designed to fit the vulva but not all vulva.

Since you are only limited to two cups, then it may not fit depending on your anatomy.

They have rubber tips so the suction will not hurt and to keep the air from flowing out once the suction has done its job.

You will see two metal circles at the bottom of the device that is meant for magnetic charging. 

The cord does not come with an adapter but you will find yours as it is a USB cord connector which is pretty common.

 

How does it work?

The sex toy has a lot of functions that are all meant to please you. It can vibrate, suck, or lick or you can combine them all.

There are four buttons on the device and you can select modes. There are 7 modes that you can choose from for the tongue motions, 3 for the suction patterns, and 10 for the vibrations.

That is so many to choose from and the good thing is you can combine all of those or make them work independently

The highest speed of the licker is 100 licks per minute. A little slower than some sex toys with the same function but it still falls on the average.

If you want to use the tongue motions, you can simply press the tongue power button and repeatedly press it to choose from the 7 patterns that you can get.

You just need to make sure that you are holding the body of the device so it can be steady and the motion of the motor does not transfer to the body.

You also have the option of using the sleeve that has ridges on the surface meant for a more stimulating experience.

But you just need to be careful as it may irritate your sensitive parts when the motor is running at the maximum power.

The suction function can be accessed the same way as the licker. You just press the suction button to turn it on and shuffle and choose from the 3 suction choices.

The part of the body will be sucked into the cup while the tongue works its way to pleasuring you and the combination can be sometimes intense.

You can control the suction by stopping it at the peak of the action with a long press on the power button of the suction function.

There is also another button for the suction function that when you press it, it will automatically release the suction and free your vulva.

The vibration is powered by a motor on the handle and the handle can be used as a regular vibrator. The same functions come in with the vibrator.

Press the vibrator button and repeat to select the best vibration pattern for you from the 10 choices that the Fantasy for Her offers.

The handle has 5 inches of total length that bends and can be inserted in the vulva and then activating the vibration mode for maximum pleasure.

So basically, the Fantasy for Her completes the experience of oral sex and penetration with its tongue/licker and the dildo-like handle.

 

How does it feel when using the Fantasy for Her?

At first glance, you will see that the Fantasy for Her looks like a cute toy that will give you the softest pleasure you can get.

That is right at the first level of intensity. But it jumps so far when you choose the second level of intensity.

The licker was a little loud. The motors did have a strong motion but because of this, they produce a loud noise when turning the licker on.

The silicone cover of the tongue has the motor which can sometimes hurt when the pressure is too much or if the device is pressed against your vulva.

The pauses on the different patterns give you a break if the tongue is going too hard on you. 

You can choose what pattern you like but overall, the second one is a favorite. It has the right speed of motion and the right pauses to please you.

The suction function is very very strong. If you try to put it on any part of your body. You will see the strength of the suction as your skin always reaches the tongue.

The good thing about the suction is that it stimulates the whole area inside the cup. It means that it does not focus the pleasure on a single part.

There were times when the pattern of the suction function did not cooperate. See, the suction adds pressure to the tongue for great stimulation but the pauses sometimes interject.

The vibrator is pretty underwhelming, in my opinion. I cannot blame that since it is not the main function of the toy. 

Surely you will find a better vibrator in the market today. However, what I liked about the vibrator is that the motor is strong.

The motor of the vibrator is strong enough that even if it is placed on the handle, you will feel it if you are using the suction function or the licker.

If you hold it steady, you can feel the strong vibrations and patterns along with the other functions.

The handle does reach the important parts inside but the vibration just does not combine well with the shape of the handle so it rarely gets you to the end of the action.

Using the three functions altogether makes the sex toy very amazing and reaching the climax will not take long.

When you find the right pressure, speed, and intensity of the three functions, then you will surely love this toy.

 

What makes this toy unique?

The fact that this toy uses all its parts to please you is what makes it different but certainly not unique.  You see, there are other toys that use the whole body for pleasure though they are hard to find at times.

It is a great toy, especially for starters. That fact that you can control the intensity will give you the freedom to enjoy it if you are a first-timer.

It also gives a little bit of experience for at least three kinds of sex toys so since you can have it all in one device, makes it great to get this for starters

 

Pros of the Fantasy for Her

1. The combination of the three functions is a rare feature and it proves to be useful since they give off a very pleasing result.

2. It is a waterproof toy so go ahead and use it in the shower. 

3. The magnetic charging, as an addition to making the device waterproof, is a very easy way to recharge your device.

4. The two different suction cups are great for different shapes and sizes of vulvas.

5. The materials used in the product are mostly body-safe so you do not have to worry about regularly using the toy.

 

Cons of the Fantasy for Her

1. You might find it hard to get used to this device. There are a lot of patterns to memorize and experience in order to make a decision on which fits you best

2. The motor underneath the tongue makes the licker somewhat stiff. It feels like something in between a soft tongue and a finger.

3. The device is way too loud for its size. It is a relatively small toy but the sound it makes is like the ones that larger sex toys produce.

4. The tongue sleeve is made out of TPE which might irritate your skin if you are not careful so use it sparingly.

 

Conclusion

The Fantasy for Her has its downsides but it still makes for a very pleasing sex toy and that is the best feature to get from a sex toy – pleasure.

Maybe it could be improved by letting a remote control it so you do not need to constantly touch the device when changing the motions.

Overall, it is a great product with features that you can rarely see in other devices. The combination of the three functions is really great and they really give you the best pleasure.

You will rarely see a sex toy that uses all its parts to please you and that is why the Fantasy for Her is a very special sex toy. 

When you are new at trying out sex toys then I suggest you consider buying this one since it gives you the most experience that you can get from a single toy.

You can also use the Fantasy for Her to start your session and maybe finish off with another toy that you like more when it comes to finishing.

But I am warning you that once you use the Fantasy for Her, you will find it hard to let go of it until you finish pleasing yourself with it.

Make sure to check out Fantasy for Her and other devices from Pipedream as they produce a lot of amazing toys!

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Is We-Vibe Vector a Good Prostate Massager?- We Vibe Vector Review

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When it comes to sex toys, men have been lagging behind with the development of their own while women are way up there with a lot of options to choose from – until the We-Vibe Vector.

The Vector is a very versatile sex toy meaning it can be used by both men and women for pleasure.

It does not look like any vibrators out there and it sure has its own advantages over the common toys in the market.

The Vector is a C-shaped prostate and perineum vibrator that is made to please every part that the toy touches.

This sex toy sure has a lot of power for a toy of its size. If you want a toy with a silent vibration but as powerful as the bigger ones, then the We-Vibe Vector is for you.

So what is really special about this sex toy? Is it the vibrations? Certainly not, since most sex toys already have various vibrations and pulses.

There are some more questions on what makes the Vector very special and we are about to answer them in this review so read on.

What comes in the box?

We-Vibe always comes up with beautiful packaging and the Vector comes in the same way with a dark box and a blue color from the picture of the sex toy itself.

With that color theme, you can assume that the sex toy was primarily designed for men but the great thing is it is not limited to them.

Out of the box, you will see the Vector with a remote, a charging cord, and a satin bag that is made with silk for limited liquid penetration when you are traveling.

We-Vibe also includes its very own water-based lube in the packaging.

 

We-Vibe Design

The We-Vibe Vector is a C-shaped sex toy that primarily pleases the prostate and the perineum and is designed to reach both at the same time.

The perineum is the space between the testicles and the butthole. A lot of people ignore that area but it is actually a very sensitive part and it can be stimulated as well.

The Vector is made out of smooth silicone and is coated all over which makes the device waterproof.

The butt plug that goes into the hole to please the prostate is smaller compared to most sex toys in the market measuring at only 4 inches and 1,3 inches at its widest girth.

This might look short but the fact is that the area that it pleases is only 2 to 3 inches deep inside so it reaches the prostate with just the right length.

The tip of the butt plug has ridges to help further stimulate the prostate and stops right in that area. The neck can be adjusted meaning you can get the perfect fit for both spots.

The external part of the plug is raised to the point where if you insert the toy into your butthole, the extension reaches your perineum and gives you just the right amount of pressure in there.

The bottom part of the Vector has a single button that functions as the on and off button or the connector to the remote and the App.

It also has a metal attachment right under the button for magnetic charging.

 

How does the We-Vibe Vector work?

So first, you need to turn the vibrator on and make sure that it is connected with the App if you want to use that or with the remote.

You need to use water-based lube for this toy to help the already-smooth coating of the toy.

The other kinds of lube may ruin the silicone coating so make sure to use water-based lubes to keep the quality and smoothness of the Vector.

You can use the Vector manually, through the remote or with the We-Connect App which allows any person to control the sex toys anywhere in the world.

The narrow girth of the sex toy makes it easy to insert, add the lube and there would not be any trouble in inserting the Vector all the way to the prostate.

It has ten modes that you can choose from and it differs in the pattern and strength of the vibration or the pulse.

You can switch the modes with the remote or the App and with the help of two motors, you will get the best experience on both the prostate and the perineum area.

The remote is a very simple 4-button remote that adjusts the vibrations and the pulses while the sex toy is inserted.

The We-Connect app can also control the vibrations by swiping across your screen. Pinching adjusts the intensity of the pulse and vibrations.

You can also adjust the duration and intensity via the app and make a playlist of all your favorite modes and play it whenever you want.

We-Vibe adds another feature with the app and allows your toy to vibrate with your favorite music. It comes with the beats and syncs it with the pulses and the vibrations.

It also offers control to someone else anywhere from around the world and includes an in-app chat, voice, and video call for a safe private session with your partner.

The Vector beeps when it has a low battery so you do not have to cut your pleasure short as it warns you right away.

A fully-charged Vector can last for u to 90 minutes before its battery runs out.

This toy is perfect for men because its main job is to pleasure the prostate which only men have but the thing is, there are reviews from women that this toy can please them just as well.

Women can use this sex toy and partner it with a dildo with no issues.

Although penetrative sex with a partner will be somehow comfortable as the eternal part of the sex toy covers some part of the vagina.

Switching it on before inserting may please some users but I personally think it would be better if you insert it first in your butthole and then find the right adjustment to reach your perineum.

 

How does it feel?

If I put it shortly, it was impressive! The fact that the vibrations and the pulses are strong enough to stimulate both the prostate and perineum make the Vector an amazing competitor.

It is not the strongest prostate vibrator but it seems like strength is not the key. Yes, of course, the strength of the vibration is a must but the Vector hits the right spot with just the right force.

Adjusting the sex toy to get the perfect fit for your prostate and perineum makes the toy a thousand times better.

Having it touch the spots and with the motors powerful enough to stimulate both areas is the most amazing feature which might bring you to the climax too soon.

The fact that the sex toy is small makes it comfortable and the smoothness of the silicone makes it a whole lot better.

Controlling the sex toy was very easy as you do not have to remove the sex toy whenever you want to change the mode or the intensity.

Using it in the shower leaves you no worries since it is waterproof. That means that if you use it inside the tub or the shower, you get to enjoy it without fearing that it will be destroyed.

The remote, however, is not waterproof so I went on and adjusted the Vector with the We-Connect app and set up a playlist so it still changes without the remote.

The We-Connect app feels great especially when you got somebody else controlling the sex toy from a distance.

The additional fun is the surprise factor that your partner gives you with the help of the app. You get to enjoy your favorite motions of the sex toy while adding the element of surprise.

You can adjust the strength of the vibration and if you have experienced prostate vibrators, then the strongest vibration will feel amazing.

If you are a new user or new to prostate vibrators then you have the option of a lower intensity and then you can gradually go stronger when you get used to it.

The point here is that the We-Vibe Vector has both features that fit new and experienced users so it surely is versatile.

Speaking of versatility, both men and women can use this sex toy and have experience pleasure.

 

Why is the We-Vibe Vector Different?

Well, for starters, it has an adjustable vibrator which is very helpful in experiencing maximum pleasure and climax.

The fact that the Vector is one if not the only vibrator that stimulates the prostate and the perineum makes it as unique as ever.

With the remote control and the app, you do not need to constantly remove the sex toy and change the mode or the intensity as you can do that wile it is inserted.

The notification it gives off when it has a low battery is helpful as well so you can avoid hindering yourself from reaching the climax.

The motors of the Vector are very powerful yet very quiet. You would not expect the number of vibrations and the intensity of the pulses from a motor that quiet.

When using the app, it adds so much fun when you can control the top and bottom motors separately.

There is a split in your screen where you can control the external and the plug motors in various ways.

 

What I liked about the We-Vibe Vector.

1. The device can be both enjoyed by any gender and they can achieve the same pleasure.

2. You can choose from 10 different modes to please yourself.

3. The external vibrator is adjustable so you can have a perfect fit with this sex toy.

4. It stimulates two parts in men which is rare with male sex toys so this is a huge upgrade fro maximum pleasure.

5. You can use it with your partner far away from you which makes this sex toy perfect for people in a long-distance relationship.
You can control it in many ways, manually, through the remote, or via the app.

 

What I do not like about the We-Vibe Vector.

1. There is not much to hate about the Vector but the battery life could be improved. It is a small device so adding a longer battery life would make a difference.

 

Conclusion

The We-Vibe Vector is a very risky take on sex toys primarily for men. There have been only a few or no sex toy at all that stimulates two parts of the male body.

But it worked and most people who used it seem to love the pleasure that the Vector gives so I guess there was no risk at all.

The fact that it is adjustable makes the amazing sex toy even more impressive. It goes right on the spot where you want it to be and does its job perfectly.

Having the app connected to the Vector makes it applicable to people far from each other so it helps with keeping relationships up with their sexual endeavors.
With 10 different modes that you can set as a playlist, you will not run out of surprises on how this small device can be of a very big use when it comes to giving pleasure.

As a personal preference, this toy is really great since it was the first sex toy that I have experienced to please both the prostate and the perineum.

The Vector works on both men and women, the new and experienced user so make sure to check it out and try it yourself.

With the amazing features cramped up to this small device, I am sure that you will not be let down by the We-Vibe Vector!

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